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Good back and forth here, I feel like I agree with the big picture theme of the book but most of your criticisms were also valid. A couple nitpicks though:

- I think comparing “dangerous male jobs” to prostitution is a little bit disingenuous. The glaring difference between loggers and prostitutes is that every single logger is there by choice, while a huge amount of prostitutes are not. Even those who are not faced with the threat of violence are often coerced at a young age or forced because of desperation/addiction. For the loggers, I’d also bet that the risk is somewhat part of the appeal, and the internal sense of validation they get from that work is very different from prostitution. Obviously, there’s a difference here between prostitutes, strippers, and only fans camgirls, which all fall under the “sexwork” umbrella.

-There is no doubt that porn is contributing to sexual dysfunction in men, independent of the decline in testosterone. The level of performance anxiety and body dysphoria relating to penis size among men is higher than its ever been. As a young man (27), I can tell you that the vast majority of guys in my friend group would fully acknowledge that porn has negatively effected their perception of sex and women. This is a group of athletic, social guys and it’s not low testosterone. I worry for the effect it’s having on kids now, who have access to hardcore porn at an insanely young age. Call me crazy, but I don’t think being exposed to hang bangs and anal sex before you’ve even gone on a date with a girl is the recipe for a healthy sexuality.

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unfriendly_teapot's avatar

> and the majority of women on the other side,

isn't this just actually untrue? i'm pretty sure data shows women are, in the US at least, more supportive of trans stuff than men, at least as long as endorcing TWAW is what we use as a yardstick, with a majority of women agreeing with that statement at least. do you mean globally, or are you talking about the crazier parts?

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